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Learn to Look upon the good in people and not the bad.........


Sometimes I get aggravated with the way people handle situations this days. This happens often in relationships,just because a fellow fall short or makes one bit of mistake which "Nobody is above mistake unless God ",people will at that point forget all the good that he/she has done in the past.
the factual truth is that if this/that fellow has ever done a Good thing and all of a sudden goes on doing bad,that fellow can still do good because he possesses a virtue of goodNess in him to have done good before.

Let's fix this problem together, the time to be judgemental is over, let's always remember the good in others . I love this saying....... "if you don't stand for something you will fall for anything" this I'd say is the basics of trust,always focus on the good of people than on the bad because by so doing you make a difference in your relationships.

Do you know that even a thief is got a Good side? (ask the thief that went to paradise with Jesus). The most cruel and evil man on earth is got a bit of a Good in him,but what makes that good to surface is acceptance, acceptance by people around such folks.
You might say....... "What if I get caught up in the flames when I try to accept such folks?" well I am not saying that you will have to embrace them at once, No! you just need to acknowledge the good in them. Take for example "fire", fire happens to be deadly, but dear chap, fire is got a Good side no matter how dangerous it is said to be,but you don't just go and hug the fire rather you make use of it.

you may also say...... "I have tried so hard for this relationship to work out but the other party is still on his old same road,I am tired and I want out!"

I will tell you a short story...... I and a friend saddled out one morning on foot in search of an institution in Kuchikau,Nassarawa state,Nigeria, the journey was friendly at the start of it,but as we went on we started getting faint,after asking several persons if they knew our destination and gotten a fruitless response we said to ourselves "we can't go on any further",but my friend said let's just go a little bit forward and if we did not find it we go back home. just as we went a little further we saw the sign post of this long searched institution.
The truth is; When you begin to get weary on your journey to destiny,you are just a stone throw away from your miracle. the same principle applies to changing people.
my advice is...."Hang in there,you are closer than you know.

So my people, "Learn to look upon people's good than their bad/wrongs !!!

"Jesus loves you!"


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  1. Nice work
    People this days truly are judgemental and I think they should all read this article I'm glad that I did

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