You cannot please everybody...........

Have you ever asked yourself why people always see your bad side and don't even care to see if you have done any bit of good in your life? Well I'll tell you why!.......

Let me paint a scenario for you to understand.
Imagine if you are in your favorite restaurant, feasting on your favorite food,and all of a sudden, a lady or a guy walks in wearing a white dress with a small spot of stew stains on the dress.
The place of focus will be on the stew stains and not on the other part of the dress that is spotless.

This also applies to our lives and the way we see things. people tend to remember pains than they remember joy.

#CAN ONE EVER BE SPOTLESS???
By now I know you must be tired of been reproached and ridiculed because of some stains you have on you,but I want you to understand that you cannot please everyone. you need to understand that when it is night in one geographical location it is equally daylight in another. meaning that if some persons don't love you,others do and will.
The answer to your question is "YES",someone can actually be spotless when he/she surrenders to Jesus Christ. but that doesn't mean that everyone will love you!

#HOW DO I ACTUALLY HANDLE ALL THESE???
Hmmm! Well you can actually handle it if you can find those who love you and stay with them.
you can also handle it by ignoring the talks and focusing on working on yourself to become a better person.
Another way to handle this is by making your ways right with God and he will in turn make your enemies to be at peace with you.

In conclusion, I would say that you check yourself to see if what everybody around you is saying is true,and try to work on yourself.
But the truth still remains that you can't please everyone and not everybody will love you!