When you expect so much from men,you will surely get heartbroken.........

People are so unpredictable. They change with time and seasons.
I say this with a strong conviction because I've experienced this very subject matter.
You may ask; "what is this guy saying",well I'll tell you what I mean......
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I will start by saying that you should never have high expectations for people, now don't get me wrong,I am not saying that you should not have faith in people or believe in them; no,that's not what I meant. You can trust,have faith,and believe in people but my point here is that you should lower your standard for people.
You may say "why in the world should I not have high expectations on people?", well I'll tell you why......
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Lots of people are heartbroken and devastated today because they expected a whole lot from some persons,but got little or nothing, they had an elephant-kind of expectation on some persons but got the ant-kind of expectation in return,this alone got them heartbroken and devastated.

You need to get to a point where you expect less from people. human beings are inconsistent in their ways, they are one thing today and another tomorrow.
I want you to know that as long as a man is still in the flesh he/she is bound to misbehave anytime.
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I'll tell you my own experience....... I once knew someone that I really appreciated and loved hanging around,we all were happy, but it got to a point that what I thought that person was,was not what that person was (Don't mind my English).
I got so devastated that I erased the Person totally from my mind(not that my action is good,but I'm yet to recover from the shock.

You see; There's a shock that comes when men fail to meet your expectations,you tend to feel betrayed. You then need to accept the change that comes with the people around you and also expect less from human beings.

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