Hello everyone!
I'm here with another insight for today.
Today I'll be talking about missing or losing an opportunity in life.
Every lose of opportunity has a reason and to everyone who lost an opportunity there is a fault.
I'll be talking about relationships in this regard.
You see, distractions are everywhere and are ready to hit anyone who permits them. It takes a strong sense of reasoning to discern when a distraction is coming. Sometimes they come as wolves in sheep's clothing. Sometimes they come when we are vulnerable. But the most important thing is not to give in to them.
I've seen a lot of ladies who have clocked age 40 and more and are yet to get married, not because they choose not to, but because the men are not forth coming. An interview with one of such ladies made me understand that distraction can make you do things that you may never recover from. It can make you say things that you can never take back.
The lady narrated her ordeal, she said: "when I was 20 years old, I met a man that loved me with all his heart and I loved him the same way. But we were so young, and had a lot to achieve. We all got admitted into different schools and we kept the love strong. But I got distracted. I saw better guys in school. Guys who wear good clothes and more presentable than he was.
I got carried away to a point I started seeing him as second option, and after a while of pain, he moved on with his life. I graduated and all the guys I left him for, moved on too. I thought they will end up gracing my finger with a ring but I was disappointed.
I later tried reaching out to the one I rejected but found out that he has moved on big time.
Other men came into my life too but none of them stayed or even tolerated me like he use to. I've missed it and I will forever regret it".
She went ahead to advise both men and women that they should be patient and have faith in the one that truly loves them. Don't look down on them because you don't know tomorrow.
She said true love is expensive!!!
Hmmmmm! This is seriously heart melting. An old man once said that true love only comes once in a person's life. He said that when you miss true love, anything else that comes is just there to mark time. He said no matter how well your relationship becomes, there will always be a but and a void that only true love can fill.
This is peculiar to both men and women alike. When you find true love or when true love finds you, do all you can to keep it. Cos your happiness depends on it. Remember true love comes but once in a lifetime!!!
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